The Tiger transcript. Your thoughts?

Courtesy of the Vancouver Sun


“Good morning, and thank you for joining me. Many of you in this room are my friends. Many of you in this room know me. Many of you have cheered for me, have worked with me, always supported me. Now, every one of you has good reason to be critical of me. I want to say to each one of you simply and directly I am deeply sorry for my irresponsible and selfish behavior I engaged in.

I know people want to find out how I could be so selfish and so foolish. People want to know how I could have done these things to my wife Elin and to my children. And while I have always tried to be a private person, there are some things I want to say.

Elin and I have started the process of discussing the damage caused by my behavior. As Elin pointed out to me, my real apology to her will not come in the form of words; it will come from my behavior over time. We have a lot to discuss. However, what we say to each other will remain between the two of us.

I am also aware of the pain my behavior has caused those of you in this room. I have let you down. I have let down my fans. For many of you, especially friends, my behavior has been a personal disappointment. To those of you who work for me, I have let you down personally and professionally.

My behavior has caused considerable worry to my business partners, to every one involved in my foundation, including my staff, board of directors, sponsors — and most importantly, the young students we’ve reached. Our work is more important than ever. Thirteen years ago, my dad and I envisioned helping young children achieve their dreams through education. This work remains unchanged and will continue to grow. From the Learning Centre kids in Southern California to the Earlwood scholars in Washington D.C., millions of kids have changed their lives, and I am dedicated to making sure that continues.

But still, I know that I have bitterly disappointed all of you. I have made you question who I am and how I have done the things I did. I am embarrassed that I have put you in this position. For all that I have done, I am so sorry.

I have a lot to atone for, but there is one issue I really want to discuss. Some people have speculated that Elin either hurt or attacked me on Thanksgiving night. It angers me that people would fabricate a story like that. Elin never hit me that night or any other night. There has never been an episode of domestic violence in our marriage. Ever. Elin has shown enormous grace and poise throughout this ordeal. Elin deserves praise, not blame.

The issue here was my repeated irresponsible behavior. I was unfaithful. I had affairs. I cheated. What I did was not acceptable, and I am the only person to blame. I stopped living by the core values that I was taught to believe in.

I knew my actions were wrong, but I convinced myself that normal rules didn’t apply. I never thought about who I was hurting; instead, I thought only about myself. I ran straight through the boundaries that married people should live by. I thought I could get away with whatever I wanted to. I felt that I had worked hard my entire life and deserved to enjoy all the temptations around me. I felt I was entitled. Thanks to money and fame, I didn’t have to go far to find them.

I was wrong. I was foolish. I don’t get to play by different rules. The same boundaries that apply to everyone apply to me. I brought this shame on myself. I hurt my wife, my kids, my mother, my wife’s family, my friends, my foundation, and kids all around the world who admired me.

I’ve had a lot of time to think about what I’ve done. My failures have made me look at myself in a way i never wanted to before. It’s now up to me to make amends, and that starts by never repeating the mistakes I’ve made. It’s up to me to start living a life of integrity.

I once heard, and I believe it’s true, it’s not what you achieve in life that matters; it’s what you overcome. Achievements on the golf course are only part of setting an example. Character and decency are what really count.

Parents used to point to me as a role model for their kids. I owe all those families a special apology. I want to say to them that I am truly sorry.

It’s hard to admit that I need help, but I do. For 45 days from the end of December to early February, I was in in-patient therapy, receiving guidance for the issues I’m facing. I have a long way to go. But I’ve taken my first steps in the right direction.

As I proceed, I understand people have questions. I understand the press want to ask me for the details, the times I was unfaithful. I understand people want to know whether Elin and I will remain together. Please know that as far as I’m concerned, every one of these questions and answers is between Elin and me. These are issues between a husband and a wife.

Some people have made up things that never happened. They said I used performance-enhancing drugs. This is completely and utterly false. Some have written things about my family. Despite the damage I have done, I still believe that it is right to shield my family from the public spotlight. They did not do these things; I did.

I have always tried to maintain a private space for my wife and children. They have been kept separate from my sponsors, my commercial endorsements. When my children were born, we only released photographs so that the paparazzi could not chase them. However, my behavior doesn’t make it right for the media to follow my two-and-a-half-year-old daughter to school and report the school’s location. They staked out my wife and they pursued my mom. Whatever my wrongdoings, for the sake of my family, please leave my wife and kids alone.

I recognize I have brought this on myself. And I know, above all, I am the one who needs to change.

I owe it to my family to become a better person. I owe it to those closest to me to become a better man. That’s where my focus will be. I have a lot of work to do, and I intend to dedicate myself to doing it.

Part of following this path for me is Buddhism, which my mother taught me at a young age. People probably don’t realize it, but I was raised a Buddhist and I actively practiced my faith from childhood until I drifted away from it in recent years.

Buddhism teaches that a craving for things outside ourselves causes and unhappy and pointless search for security. It teaches me to stop following every impulse and to learn restraint. Obviously I lost track of what I was taught.

As I move forward, I will continue to receive help, because I’ve learned that’s how people really do change.

Starting tomorrow, I will leave for more treatment and more therapy. I would like to thank my friends at Accenture and the players in the field this week for understanding why I’m making these remarks today.

In therapy, I’ve learned the importance of looking at my spiritual life and keeping it in balance with my professional life. I need to regain my balance and be centered so I can save the things that are most important to me — my marriage and my children. That also means relying on others for help. I’ve learned to seek support from my peers in therapy, and I hope someday to return that support to others who are seeking help.

I do plan to return to golf one day; I just don’t know when that day will be. I don’t rule out that it will be this year. When I do return, I need to make my behavior more respectful of the game.

In recent weeks I have received many thousands of emails, letters and phone calls from people expressing good wishes. To everyone who has reached out to me and my family, I thank you. Your encouragement means the world to Elin and me.

I want to thank the PGA Tour, Commissioner Finchem, and the players for their patience and understanding while I work on my private life.

I look forward to seeing my fellow players on the course.

Finally, there are many people in this room and there are many people at home who believed in me. Today, I want to ask for your help. I ask you to find room in your heart to one day believe in me again.

Thank you.”

27 thoughts on “The Tiger transcript. Your thoughts?

  1. Not sure if I can buy it? Hell, I’m still adicted & couldnt afford the treatment. Not that I want the treatment…

    Seriously…the proofs in the pudding El Tigre

  2. let he who is without sin cast the first stone. as for the rest of you, do us all a favor and keep your ignorant comments to yourselfs.

  3. Cut N Paste Baby! Save for a later date! Some of this crap is pretty good!

    Just think… If you had to buy it…it would cost millions!

  4. Just what we expected from Tiger…
    a controlled and contrived press conference put together by Tiger and his handlers, proving once again that he’s the same old Tiger.
    Tiger says he wants and asks forgiveness from his fans, but you can be assured that if and when he returns to the tour, we’ll get more of the same…
    a man who remains detached from the crowds and stands aloof from other players.

  5. I can attest to Fritchie’s addiction. We couldn’t get a poker game in without him breaking out pornography on his iPhone.

    Whoops! I hope his wife isn’t reading.

  6. Goodness, Aer.

    That’s about as angry as I’ve ever heard you.

    Don’t get me wrong. I’m not blasting Tiger about his indiscretions. I merely posted his speech to have some discussion on what readers thought.

    What Tiger does in his private life is his own business. I’m not propping him up on a pedestal but I think in this day and age, it’s unrealistic to think his personal life won’t become public knowledge. I mean, he is the world’s most recognizable athlete.

    Nobody’s perfect, certainly not me but it was a big story. Heck, the press conference was carried on every major network.

  7. Martina…

    Which are your top three lines from the speech? Are you suggesting he got some of those lines from “Cheaters?”

    It wouldn’t surprise me if some of these lines became part of our vernacular… if only Eldrich had delivered them with a little more flair.

  8. The influence of others (peer pressure) even at my age, is my downfall. Garbage in, garbage out thing. Did he surround himself with chief enablers who set him up with these women?

  9. I think it was what it needed to be. People are going to say and think something no matter what he says, (said), or how he said it. He will never satisfy everybody and I don’t think he’s concerned about doing that. I am not, (and neither are any of you), in a position to question his heart. I take him at his word. It’s not like he lied about it like other atheltes and steroid use. He just never admitted it until he got caught. I think he will be fine in his recovery. Afterall, he is well paid to play golf, not teach anyone how to be a “playa” if u catch my drift.
    Peace 🙂

  10. Chris

    I was expecting Tiger to say …’ I make love to my wife but I have sex with a multitude of women. Who can blame me’ ?

    Just as this press conference was simply ridiculous and it rivaled that of Favre’s first retirement from the Packers. And A-Rod’s apology for takin’ ‘boli’ ? Never mind the fact that he lied when he said he obtained from his cousin (Papi-Chulo) ! It wasn’t even a prescribed medication that can be obtained OTC in either Dom. Rep or Puerto Rico for that matter . Especially at the time when he said he was originally doing it .

    Alan Parkins

  11. Money… hey, we’ve all lied before. We’ve all been caught before. Just probably not with so much at stake.

    This is Tiger’s first step on a long road to recovery.

    Where do you think he ranks on the PW scale? I’m thinking pretty high.

    One thing’s for sure. Tiger ain’t polished or media savvy like Kobe Bryant.

  12. Be right over to check out your latest, Al. I’m behind on my reading as usual.

    Think Tiger’s looking forward to playing in New York again?

    I’m thinking the crowd will be a little harsh on el Tigre.

  13. I try to defend everybody, another one of my many flaws!

    Wonder is this is why I’m an avid NASCAR fan and not an all around sports kind of a gal? Race car drivers’ last big sins were hauling liquor. Oh yeah, there was that Jeremy Mayfield thing. Jeremy who, you say? See, everyone has already forgot him!lol

  14. You have a loving, forgiving heart, Ath.

    But I think you may have just jinxed a future NASCAR driver. Someone’s bound to get in trouble soon.

    I’ll make sure they thank you.

  15. Greg… you’re exactly right.

    As Jalen Rose pointed out on First Take this week, athletes in the past, i.e., Barkley, Kobe, etc. have come back from worse than this to reestablish their image and their fan base. But Tiger now has no room for error.

    He’s gonna have to mind his P’s and Q’s from now on. We’ll see how it affects his personal life… and his golf game.

  16. I feel the need to apologize about my comment. I was a little depressed and a little fed up with the holier than thou attitude of a few people.
    All this is supposed to be fun and I forgot that fact.
    Please ignore my ignorant comment.

    Thank you.

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