Book Review: 18 in America by Dylan Dethier

dylan dethier 18 in americaBefore I proceed with my review of Dylan Dethier’s 18 in America, let me first say that two things will piss you off about this book.

First of all, Dethier is a better golfer than you or me.  Second of all, he is a better writer than you or me.  Considering I partake in both of these activities on a regular basis, please allow me take a quick breath before moving forward.

Okay, I feel better now.

Dylan Dethier, the book’s teenage author (and no, the book was not co-written), started taking his golf game seriously once “a twenty-one-year-old named Eldrick Woods was fist-pumping his way around Augusta National.  All of a sudden, golf looked as if it might be sort of cool.

What followed, 18 in America, is Dylan’s story.  Leave it to a kid named Dylan to write something poetic.

Before you mistake him for your spoiled, run-of-the-mill, country club brat, you should know he’s far from it.

“I deflected everything I hated about the game onto the rich kids I would run into at tournaments.  I hated the way they wore their thick white sunglasses when it wasn’t sunny and the way they matched their turquoise hats to their turquoise pants.  I hated the way they talked about the putting greens in their backyards but still managed to suck at putting.  I hated the way they talked about golf courses they had been to and where their fathers were members.”

And so, on a whim, Dethier decided to discover golf in America.  Right after high school and right before college, Dethier embarked upon a project you will be better off for reading, regardless of whether you’re a golf fan or notAfter digesting 18 in America, you might just become one.  Dylan’s journey encompasses one school year, at least one round of golf in the lower forty-eight states, just him, his beat-up Subaru, $5,000 in cash and a roll of duct tape his father had given him in case of emergency.

Dylan Dethier18 in America is a heartfelt, introspective, coming-of-age story, Jack Kerouac meets Jack Nicklaus.  From New York to Pennsylvania, on to Ohio and Michigan, up through the Dakotas and onward, with every stop, 18 leaves you wondering what Dylan will discover next, not only about golf and our beloved country, but about himself.

As you thumb through the pages of 18, and you’ll do so relatively quickly as it’s a difficult book to put down, you’ll find yourself wanting to be Dylan the way you would the protagonist of your favorite movie, minus the oyster cracker and peanut butter diet, the infrequency with which he did his laundry and the evenings his Subaru slumber was rudely interrupted by police officers, park rangers or truck stop vagrants trying to break in through his passenger door window.

“Golf gave me a sense of purpose. I relished that time of day when I would get into my car and type “golf course” into my GPS and drive to the nearest one that showed up.  I had been seeing, over and over, how golf can step in when the rest of life comes up short – how the game has a way of filling in the divots in people’s lives.”

In his cross-country quest, he encountered plenty of lonely times but also an oddball cast of characters like the three straight nights he spent playing blackjack with a truck driver in Cabazon which almost cost him his entire savings, the shifty Vegas Johnny who tried to hustle him on the course or the motivational scooter salesman who insisted on giving him a nickel tour of the Lone Star State.

MerionAs his trip progressed, Dethier’s story started picking up nationwide recognition.  He snuck into a hotel one morning to illegally partake in their continental breakfast, a habit he picked up early in the trip to save money, to discover his story had made the USA Today.  With his growing popularity, ritzier golf courses began welcoming his arrival which is how he ended up teeing off at courses like Pebble Creek, Sawgrass and Merion, the home of this year’s US Open.  There are several other pleasant surprises he encounters along the way but I’d hate to spoil the fun as this is a book that you really should read.

One thing stood out most about 18 in America.  As a burgeoning golfer who tries not to obsess about score, you’ll notice Dethier rarely reports his.  In the first two hundred pages, he mentioned score only twice.  Here’s why.

“By the time I’d hit Missouri, I’d decided that keeping score was the best – but also the worst – thing about golf.  The way we try to reduce the success of a four-hour athletic endeavor shared by friends down to miniature pencil numbers squeezed onto a four-by-six inch piece of paper is absurd.  We ruin lots of beautiful experiences by quantifying them. Golf courses, though, aren’t made to be painted by number. They’re made of opportunity and failure and creativity, because in reality, the golf course – not the scorecard – is the canvas.”

I told you he was a better writer than you or me.

What Dethier ultimately discovered was how following his dream affected those he ran into along the way.  Reading about his trip might affect you in the same way. 18 in America is about taking chances.  It will make you toss your clubs in the trunk and schedule a tee time.  It might even make you drive a little farther to your next round just to see what life holds in store.

11 thoughts on “Book Review: 18 in America by Dylan Dethier

  1. Pingback: Book Review: 18 in America by Dylan Dethier - BallHyped Blog Network, Golf | BallHyped Sports Blogs

  2. Gotta hand it to the kid. What he did at his age takes a lot of guts. It sounds like a book that I might enjoy.
    Thanks for the heads up!

  3. It`s nice to know that Eldrick and Sergio haven`t buried the hatchet in each others` skulls .

    But who knows what might happen at the upcoming US Open ?

    I`d invite Sergio over to dinner but he might not like what we serve up on te menu . We Jamaicans are somewhat cannibalistic at times . LOL,LOL ,LOL !!!

    Is white meat just as good as dark meat ? I guess we will never find out unless we try .

    tophatal ………….

  4. No shit, Aer. It was a really good read and like I said, tough to put down.

    I’m sure you’ll love it. If I had an extra copy, I’d give it away but I’m sure you can find it at a local bookstore.

    Wait, they still do have bookstores, don’t they?

  5. Al…

    Serg and Tiger shook and made up apparently but I doubt that means they’ll be hanging out together.

    Speaking of burying the hatchet, Tiger will be playing his opening rounds with Masters Champion Adam Scott and his former caddy Steve Williams.

    I think that would make for some interesting conversation… or lack thereof.

  6. The US Open all asides , Tiger has something to prove and then some .

    Still doubting me about how the NBA Finals could turn out after last night’s blowout ? Why were you somewhat doubtful concerning my synopsis ? And all of these so called prognosticators simply casting asides the Spurs ? What the hell does Bill Simmons and Stephen A Smith know about the NBA ?

    Miami has no damn bench and they are a poor rebounding team and that has been on evidence all season long as well during the playoffs .

    tophatal ……..

  7. Miami’s getting their asses handed to them, Al.

    I don’t think they’re taking this series seriously.

    They may want to start soon before San Antonio embarrasses them entirely.

  8. Chris

    The Heat are taking the series seriously in the fact that they and their fans were under the impression that Tim Duncan and his teammates would be too weary after almost eight days of rest and no competitive basketball being played by the Spurs .

    Complacency set in , and Spoelstra is simply being out-coached in every facet of te game .

    Game four , tonight will be a true test for this Heat team . which based upon this series shows just how overrated they just happen to be . Poor rebounders and one where there seems to be no vocal leader and the bench players would rather act as pom-pom cheerleaders for LeBron .

    Rashard Lewis , Juwan Howard and Shane Battier are chasing rings to legitimize their lame careers without ever having done anything during the prime of their playing years . Collectively , that trio have earned in excess of $ 485 million for their combined careers in the NBA . Now tell me what that suggests to you at the end of the day ?

  9. Al…

    Battier had been playing well but for some reason is no longer being used. Lewis, well, we know how that ended up in Orlando. And Howard’s wearing a suit.

    Regardless, man, ultimately, the responsibility for losing this series won’t fall on those three.

    It’ll fall squarely on the shoulders of the big three if they can’t get it done.

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